From the recent NAFE Roundtable for 2008's Top Companies for Executive Women: Liz Smith (left), General Manager, Infrastructure Services, IBM, host of the NAFE Roundtable, and Julie Daum (right), practice leader for the North American board service practice at Spencer Stuart.



$99 Banners and Skyscrapers: Want to promote your business? For NAFE members, a banner or skyscraper ad in one issue of the NAFE E-Newsletter will cost you just $99.00. (Regular rate is $150.00.) Contact newsletter editor Paula Damiano to place your ad: paula.damiano@nafe.com. [Note: you must be an active NAFE member to receive this special rate.]

Deadline Approaching! NAFE 2009 Best Companies for Executive Women. The application process is still open – but only until the end of October. Our famed Best Companies initiative recognizes those organizations that encourage and advance women in the workplace. Click here for the application and further details on the program. Questions? Contact Kristen Willoughby: kristen.willoughby@workingmother.com.

It’s Official: I-NAFE! For 36 years, NAFE has been the preeminent American businesswomen’s organization. In 2006 and 2007, we tested the international waters with Breakfast Clubs in Toronto, Canada and Sao Paulo, Brazil. Then, on August 7th of this year, I-NAFE was officially launched in Johannesburg, South Africa. The “I” is for International – but also for Internet, because it’s today’s technology that will make it possible for women around the planet to stay in contact.

So check out the new I-NAFE website and learn what your fellow members are doing with their professional and personal lives. There are also lots of great articles on managing your career. And you can read the first issue of the I-NAFE E-Newsletter by clicking here. Note: NAFE members are automatically also members of I-NAFE and will receive the monthly I-NAFE newsletter. 

Welcome Brandywine Professional Women! A new NAFE network is starting on November 11th in Pennsylvania’s Brandywine Valley. The Brandywine Professional Women invite you to the Dangerous Dining Book Club. Come network with other professional women in the area. The first book that will be discussed is BRAG! The Art of Tooting Your Horn Without Blowing It. They’ll talk about the art of the brag: its benefits in and out of the office, what stops us from effectively tooting our own horns and some “tooting tips.” For more information: Annmarie Kelly, 610-738-8225, info@skillbuildersystems.com.

Conference Discount for NAFE Members. Sheila Robinson, publisher of Diversity Woman Magazine, is a NAFE member and a great supporter of our organization. She invites you all to the Women's Leadership Empowerment Luncheon  in New York at the Marriott Marquis Times Square on November 6th. The program’s theme is “Effective Leadership During Challenging Times.” As a special incentive, Sheila is offering a special price (just $99.95) to her fellow NAFE members. Use promo code dwp01z when you register.

$45,000 Math Grant for Midcareer Women. The Ruth I. Michler Memorial Prize of the Association for Women in Mathematics is awarded annually to a woman recently promoted to Associate Professor or an equivalent position in the mathematical sciences. The prize provides a fellowship for the awardee to spend a semester in the Mathematics Department of Cornell University without teaching obligations. Hurry – application deadline is November 1.

NAFE Discount on Whirlpool Products. Through a special arrangement with Whirlpool, NAFE members can reap big savings on Whirlpool appliances, accessories and other Whirlpool items. You and your family can purchase up to 12 products a year under the VIPLINK program and get substantial savings on everyday retail pricing. Go to the NAFE website to sign up for the discount program – just click on the Whirlpool banner at the top of the NAFE home page.



Audrey Bell-Kearney was interviewed on the Black Authors Network on BlogTalk Radio. The live program aired on the evening of October 13th and was hosted by Ella Curry.

NAFE member Joanie Winberg invites you to join the Wellness Getaway for Single Again Women: a 3-night cruise (February 6-9, 2009) on Royal Caribbean's Monarch of the Seas from Port Canaveral, Florida to beautiful CoCo Cay and Nassau, Bahamas. Click here for more information.

Melissa Luddeni, a member in northeastern Pennsylvania, has had her first article published. The piece, which appeared in Idea Masters, is about her work with Trivani™ Child Guardians. You can read it here.



5 Tips for Staying UP in a Down Economy

Dana Lightman, Ph.D., is a national keynote speaker and trainer, expert on positivity, author and creator of POWER Optimism – strategies to create the outcome you want, regardless of the circumstance.

Dana says: You tune in to the economic news, and it’s practically impossible not to have some gut-clenching response. The fact is, there’s not much you can do to change the current economic circumstances. But there’s a lot you can do to maintain your own professional equilibrium in the face of increased business stressors. And once you are on an even keel, you can use these same tips to bolster your staff.



#1 Don’t feed the negative. A Cherokee chief, teaching his grandson about life, explains that we all battle two wolves. One is negative, filled with anger, self-pity and self-doubt. The other is positive, filled with joy, hope, and trust. His grandson listens carefully and then asks, “Which wolf will win?” The old chief simply replies, “The one you feed.” Stop feeding your negative wolf with complaints, worries, negative talk, and excessive media. Even if you can’t feel positive, don’t let your negative wolf put you on a downward spiral.
#2 Take a step back. You are taking a photograph. When you have the lens on zoom, it’s easy to focus solely on your subject. Conversely, if you step back far enough, your subject becomes one small part of a larger landscape. It’s the same principle with maintaining an upward spiral. You may need to zoom in on a particular problem or stressor in order to develop a solution. But don’t keep your focus there. Remember to take a step back to see a bigger picture. Put your problem in the context of positive aspects and it ceases to dominate your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. You are now free to experience a sense of relief and perhaps serenity.
#3 Keep breathing. No one knows how this economic crisis will evolve and resolve, but most experts agree that there is no quick fix. Staying fearful and anxious only serves to increase your distress, which may even escalate into more severe physical and mental symptoms. Instead, you can choose to relax and stay calm. Practice yoga, meditation or other relaxation techniques. Take deep, cleansing breaths and center yourself. This is a great way to increase your resiliency.
#4 Focus on today. The past is the past, the future is the future, but the present is a gift. Life can only be lived in the present moment. So take time to create a positive intention for your day. You may even want to break your day into different segments and visualize successful outcomes for each. Plan activities and take actions that will put you on an upward spiral. In this way, you are feeding your positive wolf!
#5 Reframe difficulties into gains. You are likely to face some business difficulties as a result of the current economic uncertainties. While this can be troublesome, within every difficulty lies the potential for gain. Think about past problems or disappointments and the gains that emerged over time in handling those situations. Now, imagine the possible benefits that you may derive from your current difficulties. For example, in searching for solutions, you may discover some hidden talents among your staff or less expensive yet effective marketing tools. By focusing on these potential gains, you are creating the momentum you need to keep you inspired and energized.


What are YOUR views on the upcoming presidential election, the possibility of our first female VP, etc.? Let the world know what you really think. Connect with others; learn and share. Have YOU blogged today? Visit the NAFE blog page today. Here’s a sample of our current content…

Lisa Fredette blogs about selfishness – is it really okay?

Laura Bell offers up some business law basics.


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Victorville, CA
October 25, 2008

The High Desert For You Network invites one and all to their program, A Day For You. The program will address Education, Self-Esteem, Health, Abuse, Self-Defense, and Adolescent Self-Injury, Dressing For Success and other topics important to the development of today’s total young woman. Click here to learn more.

New York, NY
October 28, 2008

Working Mother Media will present its first-ever Heath & Hospital Systems WorkLife Forum as a pre-event to launch the annual WorkLife Congress (Oct. 28-30, 2008) and the 23rd list of Best Companies for Working Mothers. This industry sector has its own unique worklife challenges. Panelists and case studies will explore solutions. For more information on the Health & Hospital Forum, click here.


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