5 Tips on How to Manifest Your 2009 Goals
As you consider your goals for 2009, are you poised to do something different this year that really supports your success? This issue’s 5 Tips come from Visionary Expressions President Jacqueline Cherry, whose company focuses on the relationship between women’s empowerment and the development of an invaluable sisterhood. Jackie invites you to join her biweekly Sunday evening teleconferences called “Sister to Sister, Let’s Talk,” which explore subjects relevant to women’s everyday lives. She and her colleague Noelle Elia are authoring a series of Sister to Sister, Let's Talk books, the first of which will be published in early 2009.
1. Identify your goals with clarity
This requires that we stop long enough to really think about what we specifically want to achieve. It is helpful to write down your goals and put them in a place where you will see them daily. The clearer you are about exactly what you desire, the more likely it is that you will manifest your desire.
2. Create attainable goals
If your marriage is on the rocks and you set your goal as “getting my marriage back on track”, you might continue to think about how to do that for several weeks or even months – because that goal is so broad. But if you set your goal as “I am going to find a counselor and invite my husband to join me in counseling,” that is a step you can take immediately. If you want to get in shape, e.g., make your goal specific: go to the gym 3 days a week for 1 month or pack a healthy lunch for work 3 days a week for 90 days.
3. Look at what might get in your way
What are you allowing to stop you? Take stock of your environment and know that you can choose to be in control of what influences you on a daily basis. Get support from people who are positive and believe in you. Choose not to engage in toxic dynamics with those who try to negate your goals.
4. Ask for help when you need it
Identify and ask a sister/friend for help, someone who is already where you want to be. If your goal is “to have less conflict with my teenage son”, think about who can help you. You may decide to call your cousin who has a great relationship with her children who are in their 20s, and ask for her input on how best to handle your relationship with your son. She has already weathered some of these storms and may have some great advice.
5. Keep your vision high
While it is important to set realistic goals, it is just as important not to underestimate what you are capable of. Surround yourself with those who see greatness in you. You will grow into their belief in you. Use all of your gifts when goal-setting and do not be afraid to dream big. The more you believe in yourself, the more that will become possible for your life.
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